In difficult times, it can be incredibly hard to know what to send when someone has lost a loved one. 

Flowers are traditional, but they aren’t always helpful. They arrive quickly, they look beautiful, and they fade within days. What many people truly want - what people search for - is a gift that lasts a little longer and gives comfort, light, and a sense that someone cares. 

That’s where thoughtful bereavement gifts come into their own. 

Whether you’re searching for: 

• a bereavement gift 
• a sympathy gift 
• what to send when someone dies 
• a gift for someone who’s grieving 
• a gift to comfort someone 
  
  - you want something that feels meaningful, personal, and appropriate. 

Candles are a timeless symbol of remembrance and light. They offer space for reflection and can be used again and again as a gentle reminder of connection. 

Why a Candle is One of the Most Thoughtful Bereavement Gifts 

A candle is much more than an object - it becomes a moment of quiet thought, a pause in the day, a light in a heavy time. 

It isn’t fleeting like flowers - it can be lit on anniversaries, birthdays, or simply on ordinary evenings when a flicker of warmth can mean more than words. 

Our bereavement candle is a 65-hour candle, beautifully boxed with a matching label, and comes in two heartfelt options: 

• Thinking of You 
• Forever in Our Heart 

Each is designed to be appropriate and respectful. 

Choosing a Bereavement Candle - What Matters 

1. The Message on the Candle 

The words you choose matter. 
“Thinking of You” is quiet comfort - perfect if the loss is recent or if you’re unsure which sentiment feels right. 

“Forever in Our Heart” speaks to lasting love and remembrance - beautiful for anniversaries or for those whose loss is deeply felt. 

Both are gentle, respectful and appropriate for sympathy gifting. 

2. Scent Matters - Sensory Comfort in Difficult Times 

Our bereavement candles come in three beautifully considered fragrances: 

• Sandalwood & Peppercorn - grounding, warm, calm 
• Coast - light, fresh, coastal breeze 
• Pink Spice - gentle warmth with a hint of spice 

The right scent can help evoke memory, soothe emotions, and transform a room into a place of peace. 

How We Can Help You Send Comfort 

We know that shopping for a bereavement gift can be emotional and stressful. That’s why we offer several thoughtful ways to support you: 

Handwritten Cards or Tags 

Choose from a range of card designs - including doves, hearts, rainbows and stars -  or choose a plain gold-foiled card. 

You can write your own message, or we can handwrite it for you. This removes the worry of getting the wording right. 

Send Direct for You 

If you can’t be with the person in person, we can send the candle directly to them beautifully boxed, with the card you’ve chosen. 

You can even choose whether the card is included in the package or sent back to you with the candle. 

This takes the pressure off you and ensures your gift arrives polished and meaningful. 

Fast Dispatch 

We send quickly, so your gift can arrive in good time - especially important when you’re thinking about someone’s healing process. 

Bereavement Gifts vs Flowers - Why Choose a Candle 

Flowers are natural and beautiful, but: 

• They require care (watering, arranging) 
• They are often overwhelming after a loss 
• They disappear within days 

A candle, however, is something that can sit in a quiet corner, be lit slowly, and become part of someone’s memory space. 

They make the room smell comforting, create a peaceful moment and can be used again - long after the initial grief has eased. 

How to Choose the Right Bereavement Candle Gift 

Here are a few simple pointers: 

• For immediate comfort: 
Choose Thinking of You - gentle and warm. 

• For long-lasting remembrance: 
Choose Forever in Our Heart - speaks to lasting love. 

• For someone who loves fresh scent: 
Choose Coast - a reminder of open air and peace. 

• For someone who loves warmth and grounding: 
Choose Sandalwood & Peppercorn - soothing and rich. 

• For a comforting everyday scent: 
Pink Spice offers gentle warmth without overwhelming. 

Final Thoughts 

Choosing a bereavement gift can be hard - but it doesn’t have to be uncertain. 

A heartfelt candle, a handwritten card, and the thought you put into it speaks louder than any bouquet. 

Light represents comfort, hope and remembering - and a candle gives that in a way flowers simply cannot. 

If you’re searching for a meaningful bereavement gift, we’re here to help you choose something beautiful and lasting.